We meet the young people at the porch. Guests stand on both sides of the path from the car to the porch. Everyone should have rice and coins in their hands. While the young people are walking from the porch, in the direction of travel, shouting “Congratulations!” they are sprinkled with cereals and coins.

They are met on the porch by the presenter and parents.

Leading: Dear newlyweds! According to tradition, the people dearest to you - your parents - meet you here. Mom is holding a wedding loaf in her hands as a symbol of well-being and prosperity. Newlyweds! Break off a piece of bread and salt it properly! You have the opportunity to annoy each other for the last time. Yes, add more salt... Now exchange pieces of bread. Look at each other with tenderness and feed each other!

The newlyweds feed each other.

And now we will see who will be the head of the family! Come on, bring the glasses here! Now on the count of three! drain the glasses to the bottom. Whoever is first is in charge. Once. Two. Three!

The newlyweds are drinking. All the guests are sick.

Witnesses:
-What kind of barrier is this?
— It’s not a simple border: family life is ahead, single life is behind. Do you, friends, have a pass to the house called Family?

The newlyweds show their marriage certificate.

Let me tell you briefly - the document is in order!
Come on in, hurry up
The wedding feast is calling you!
We invite everyone to the feast,
For wedding hospitality.

Everyone goes into the hall.

Today there is joy in this house
For family, friends, acquaintances.
Today there is a big holiday here,
Because two are cute
Two loving, beautiful
They became husband and wife.

Make yourself comfortable, dear guests, because a wedding is a long affair! Choose a more cheerful neighbor, someone you can talk to, and a nicer neighbor, whom you can look after. Men are closer to the snack, and women are closer to the drink. Everyone’s responsibilities include: pouring, topping up, not depriving everyone of your neighbors and not forgetting yourself. Now, get the champagne ready!

I ask everyone to raise their glasses,
Congratulate the young standing,
To herald the beginning of the wedding
And a new life for two!
May this day be like a bright holiday
Will flow joy into your home
And your life will be decorated forever
Hope, Happiness and Love!
And let love dawn
Doesn't go out for many years
Let it only be “bitter” at the wedding,
Never in your life!

And now, dear guests, do not be shy, gain strength before the festive program. Help yourself while we read to you
Rules of conduct at our wedding:
1. You can’t be bored, you can joke.
2. You can’t be sad, you can sing and dance.
3. Look at other people's wives and husbands,
Don't forget about your own.
4. We forbid you to swear,
Fight, argue under the table.
If you've had a little too much to drink,
It's better to go to sleep in silence.
5. To everyone without further explanation
Keep your place
Pouring into your neighbor's pocket
Juice or wine is prohibited.
6. Don’t grumble or swear,
Don't go kissing everyone,
Don't get angry under any circumstances,
Everyone has fun from the heart.
7.If someone makes a mistake
I took my sadness with me,
Put it in the refrigerator immediately
For cutlets to the cook.
8. If you are about to leave
Found slightly
Wear other people's things
This is really not a problem.
But we strictly prohibit
Go home then
When next to you
Someone else's husband or wife!
10 minutes for a feast

Guests, have you taken your glasses?
- Yes!
Friendly, did you have fun?
- Yes!
Then “Bitter!” - let's shout to them -
"Bitterly! Bitterly!" - young.
Kiss, newlyweds,
Let those kisses be countless,
Otherwise, the poor invitees
It’s bitter to drink and bitter to eat!
Let's go for this couple
Let's drink a full glass!

Meeting the guests

Toast to parents
Let's raise a cheerful spell
For those who raised this glorious couple.
Who in life knew neither sleep nor peace,
Forged such happiness for them.
The parents are sad, a little sad.
We will not judge them harshly for this.
After all, this has long been their eternal destiny.
Each of us would like to support them.
For your work and worries, for everything you could,
Let the children bow to you to the ground.
And we, in turn, are good guests,
For your parental work, we will simply tell you:
Let time fly, but don't grow old
Let your grandchildren grow up, make you younger at heart,
Good luck to you, a huge increase in health,
We raise a festive toast for you.
Presentation of comic documents
- young,
response to young parents,
Let's raise our glasses!

Handing over comic documents to parents and others.
The floor is given to grandparents.
First dance of the young

Oh, how the bride looks in love,
Oh, how excited the proud groom is.
The first waltz is for you young people,
First dance for you two.
Those who do not want to sit still to the sounds of a waltz,
Feel free to join the bride and groom.

Competition for witnesses
The witness lies down on chairs, candy is scattered over her, and the last one is placed on her lips. The witness must collect them all with his hands tied.

Toast for witnesses
For those who took honorable care,
From now on I must for many years in a row
To follow with desire, with joy, with eagerness,
So that there is peace and harmony in the family of friends.
So that the wards walk together
Dear bright, sunny, big
Before the wedding, before the silver one in the beginning,
Well, then - golden until the wedding!
We drink, as you noticed,
For young witnesses.

Z table game for guests.

Envelopes for the bride's guests:
1. Honey, should we buy a mink coat?
2. Zolotko, will you give me your entire salary?
3. My sun, will you serve me coffee and a bun in the morning?
4. Dear, will you buy me outfits every day?
5. Darling, do you want us to have three girls and no boys?
6. Good, will you help me with the housework?
Envelopes for the groom's guests:
1. Dream, dream, my beloved.
2. If wages allow.
3. As you say, my only one.
4. Everything depends on you, dear.
5. I only dream about this, my dear.
6. Well, you say the same. Wait and see.

Lighting up the family hearth.

Happiness decided to leave one house. It's hard to say why, but it decided. “But first,” said happiness, “I will fulfill one wish of each member of the family in which I lived for many years. What do you want?" - Happiness asked the hostess of the house. And she replied that she did not have a mink coat, and the hostess received a fur coat. Happiness asked the adult daughter of the hostess: “What do you want?” - and she replied that she wanted to marry an overseas prince - and she married an overseas prince. Happiness asked the owner’s son: “What do you want?” “I want,” he says, “a bicycle, I will be happy if there is a bicycle,” and the boy got a bicycle. And already on the threshold of the house, happiness saw the owner and asked: “What do you want?” The owner thought and said: “I want the warmth of the family hearth to never leave my house.” And happiness fulfilled the owner’s request and did not leave this house, because happiness lives only where the family hearth burns!”

At a noisy wedding table
Like a beacon of friendship and kindness
Let's light it up together now
Star of hope and dreams.

Let's raise our glasses to this small and still very young hearth! But he will grow up, get stronger and be able to warm both the young and their children, and their relatives and friends.

Competition for guests
Pour-drink-snack.

Distribution of responsibilities (balloons)

Competition for mothers
Mothers can tell by their voice:
1. The bride’s mother identifies her son-in-law among other guys, who take turns saying: “Mother-in-law, I love you.”
2. The groom’s mother identifies the daughter-in-law by her voice among the other girls, who take turns saying: “I can’t bear to get married.”
3. Mothers together determine the voices of the young among other couples, who take turns saying: “Mom, it’s us!”

Dance competition for couples (with a balloon).
Each couple is given a balloon, which the partners must hold between their foreheads (the backs of their heads, backs, bellies, shoulder blades, butts, knees, at chest level - at the discretion of the organizer; during the competition, the method of holding the ball can be changed at the command of the leader), the couples dance, preferably to fast music and preferably in the nature of the music. The pairs that drop the ball are eliminated.

Table competition for guests
And now the color competition. Dear guests, take a look at what color clothes you wore to the wedding celebration. Pay attention to your neighbor's clothes.
Who came dressed in red? These people are joyful, beautiful, independent, and value the fullness of life. Always ready for love, in the sense of a great feeling. They prefer to spend their holidays in the south. Let's drink to the red one.
Who is wearing white clothes? Often naive, honest people, with an untarnished reputation, kind and decent. They prefer to relax among snowy plains and polar bears. Please note, even if you drank for red, if you also have white in your clothes, you will have to drink again.
The black color of clothing indicates that we are dealing with talented people who are capable of bewitching absolutely everyone. They love black caviar and black coffee. Sexually attractive, fertile in everything! They like to relax at their lovers' dachas.
Blue clothes guarantee their owners noble origin and romance. These are loyal, nice people, they worry about literally everything and everyone.
They like to vacation everywhere, just to fly on a plane.
The green color of the outfit indicates that these are people overwhelmed by hope and dreams. Always fresh and attractive. For relaxation they prefer the nearby forest.
Who came dressed in yellow? These people are pleasant, warm, romantic, but... insidious. Gold is preferred for jewelry. They strive to take a place in the upper class. They like to relax on “Golden Sands”, they like to listen to “Golden Ring”, they like to be called “Zolotse”.

Determining the sex of the child.

Word to the witnesses

Presentation of gifts (to eat by witnesses)
Order for a new family.

Determination of the groom (by ear, by hand),
Definition of bride (by the elbow, by the knee).

Competitions

For couples with tennis balls (drive through partner's trousers).

Hospital (on the sheets write “maternity home”, “hospital”, “bynya”, “registry office”, “bedroom”, “work”.
Questions:
— how often do you visit this place?
— how long have you been there?
- what are you doing there?
- Who do you go there with?
— what are you taking with you?
— Do you enjoy going there?
— who would you dream of going there with?)

Competition for young people “explanatory and justificatory” competition. You can call it “I believe - I don’t believe.” The situation for the competition can be set as follows: “Three months of married life pass, and the young wife comes home at three in the morning. What will she say in her defense, and will her husband believe it? So, the husband opens the door, looks sternly first at his watch, then at his wife and asks the question: “Honey, why is it so late?” In response, the bride offers her own options for excuses, and the groom accepts them or not, saying “I believe!” or, conversely, “I don’t believe it!”

To attract the parents of the young couple to the sweet kissing moment, the presenter can ask the bride and groom questions: “Tanya, in high school was there at least one subject, a lesson in which you were taught to kiss?
They didn’t teach Tanya how to kiss. Let's ask the groom. Alexander, did the institute’s program include classes where you could master the art of kissing? No, there was no such thing in the institute program. What to do? Who will teach you a kissing lesson? Probably, as always, parents. We ask the parents of the bride and groom to rise and kiss each other firmly but tenderly. And at the wedding feast we will shout to them a friendly “Bitter!”

Newlyweds' vows.

In the midst of the wedding fun, the host offers the guests a game of Spin the Bottle. Brings out a large inflatable bottle of champagne that will spin during the game. On the tray there is a place with words. The guests stand in a circle, the presenter is in the center.
Whoever the bottle points to takes a card with a word, and I explain the meaning of this word in our kissing game. The bottle is spun and the cards are sorted out during the game.
Here are the words and their meanings:
Fur - kiss everyone's neighbors.
Pipes - kiss your neighbor on the lips.
Period - kiss whoever you want on the cheek.
Arrow - let the girls kiss you.
Fingers - let the boys kiss you.
Verse - the groom will send an air kiss.
Bride - kiss the one whose place is next to you.

Competition for young people - dress a doll with tied hands.

A toast to the guests
— Did you drink to the young people?
All: -Drank!
-Did you drink to your parents?
All: -Drank!
- To become closer and dearer to all of us,
Let's drink to the guests!

Bouquet and garter toss.

Well, you can see the newlyweds off from the wedding along a corridor of burning candles held by the guests. The presenter will say that let so many happy stars illuminate their life path together, that let so many lights light up in the homes of relatives and friends who are always ready to help and give the newlyweds the warmth and joy of meeting.

It instills excitement in the souls of not only future spouses, but their relatives, friends and even random people who help organize the celebration. The main question for newlyweds is how much will we spend, and will this amount be recouped in gifts? Yes, it sounds, of course, mercantile, but the fact remains that people often forget that a wedding is a holiday. The most budget-friendly option for organizing a worthy celebration, allowing you to realize your dreams and fantasies to the fullest, is a wedding at home. You can also write an interesting script for her. So how to celebrate a wedding at home and what are the pitfalls?

Advantages

A magnificent wedding in an expensive restaurant is optimal only in two cases:

• newlyweds (their parents) are very rich people for whom such expenses are mere trifles;
• future spouses want to show off “like other people” by taking out loans and plunging into the abyss of poverty for a couple of years.

The first category is not considered in the article. Second... There is a question - why is this necessary? With the money you save, you can furnish your home or go to a resort on your honeymoon. If you approach budgeting adequately, you can combine these two activities.

Organizing a wedding at home is about a third more economical than a celebration in a restaurant, where you will pay more simply for a beautiful setting and waiter service.

Another issue is time. The duration of the celebration in the restaurant is limited. You need to pay extra for an extension. At home, you can celebrate a wedding even for a week without worrying about the imminent closure of the establishment and additional rental costs. And the guests will feel more comfortable - no one will interrupt their fun in the midst of the feast.

Another plus is the freedom of choice and design of the room. Most restaurants try not to change the appearance of the room much during a celebration. For them, these are unnecessary expenses and temporary losses. At home, you can create any atmosphere and decor without overpaying for the opportunity to hang this or that decoration on the wall.

Among the disadvantages are usually:

• lack of a formal atmosphere;
• limited number of guests;
• high labor costs.

This is all solvable, the main thing is to organize the wedding competently and rationally.

If there are a lot of young people at the wedding who like to party, then the option of home gatherings is most likely not suitable; you need to look for a suitable venue. A home wedding is designed more for relatives!

What you need

Organizing a wedding at home is based on. To compile it, you should decide what the newlyweds want to receive:

• menu;
• decorations;
• clothes (many people order them from the studio on an individual basis or rent them);
• photographers Service;
• services of a presenter (toastmaster).

All this can easily cost 50 thousand rubles, and in some regions even less. If finances allow, you can add evening fireworks outside to the list.

Wedding planner

It has been noticed that couples who celebrated their wedding at home live more amicably and the divorce rate among them is much lower.

Elena Sokolova

Cook

Designate a place to store food after the celebration - sometimes there is enough food and drinks for another week.

Andrey Belorusov

Making a menu

To simplify the process, you can glance at the price lists of several decent cafes, and also read a book about tasty and healthy food. At the same time, take into account the local peculiarities of weddings. Be sure to add a couple of national dishes, but you don’t need to completely fill the table with them.

The ideal menu for a home wedding looks like this:

1. Slicing. This includes sausages, smoked meats, balyki, and sometimes lard. There are several interesting options to choose from.
2. These include cheese (it’s better to choose several types), jellied meat (there are sure to be fans), tartlets, meat rolls, herring or mackerel.
3. Salads. Not a single celebration is complete without them, but making 10 types is pointless; it is better to prepare the following options: herring under a fur coat, Olivier, crab and one exotic one, for example, a chicken cocktail with strawberries.
4. Fruits. Bananas, citrus fruits, and apples are a must. You can add kiwi, pineapple, mango.
5. Soft drinks. There’s nothing complicated here – several types of juice and soda. Homemade compotes are in particular demand at weddings, so if you have some on your balcony, feel free to put them on the table in a beautiful decanter.
6. Sweets. The mandatory assortment includes sweets and cookies. For variety, add marshmallows, kozinaki, baklava, cakes (preferably with berries). Completes the picture
7. Alcohol. The most difficult question, but easily solved. Drinks are placed on the table at the rate of 0.25 liters. per person. If there is not enough, you can put some more alcohol on the balcony.

Select the assortment in accordance with the preferences of the guests. Many men - more vodka, most women - more white and red wine.

When organizing a home wedding, cooking usually falls on the shoulders of the newlyweds' relatives and their friends. Sometimes a traveling chef is hired to prepare meals. It is not very expensive, but the food will be devoid of home care and you cannot vouch for its quality.

Attention! We wrote more about creating a menu for a small wedding at home

Consider possible allergies of any of the guests to the presented treats. To avoid an unpleasant situation, interview everyone who will be present at the celebration in advance.

Bridal outfits

If buying a good one can be understood, then purchasing a wedding dress is not justified. In the future, a man will be able to use the jacket and trousers purchased for painting, but the girl is forced to hang her wedding dress in the closet and forget about it. But it’s not all bad; there are a number of solutions that allow you to save on a dress and even wear it in the future.

Wedding Dress

Who said that a bride's outfit for a home wedding must be a classic wedding dress? Over the past decade, a look at this accessory.

The idea of ​​purchasing a good and versatile evening dress has become popular., which will shine both at the wedding and in the future at special events. In any case, it should be light shades, this is a prerequisite, because a wedding is the main event in a girl’s life!

Another option is rental. This is an economical solution; the cost of renting an outfit in the regions ranges from 2 thousand rubles to 20, depending on its style and materials. It is cheaper than purchasing and, even more so, having it sewn to order in a studio.

Groom suit

Everything is simpler here. The groom's suit will be the same in style, regardless of the location of the celebration. It is best to order it from a tailor - this is a guarantee that the clothes will fit perfectly on the body. The color must be dark. If the restaurant environment can be in harmony with any color scheme, then the home atmosphere will fade against the background of the too bright outfit of the bridegroom.

Preparing the premises

First of all, the apartment must be perfectly cleaned. Not a speck of dust, not a speck of dust - everything shines and smells. This is the only way to achieve the desired atmosphere. The next stage is decorating the house for the wedding. It's not difficult, but you have to follow certain rules.

Decorating a home for a wedding with your own hands depends on the style of the celebration.

1. Quiet cozy get-together. Balloons, flowers and several posters like “advice and love!” are hung on the walls. No frills, everything is modest.
2. . This idea became popular in the capital in the mid-2000s. Candles are lit and the walls are decorated with paintings. In the festive atelier you can rent props: a skin that spreads on the floor, some attributes of medieval Europe for additional decoration of the walls.
3. Modern wedding. A sea of ​​flowers and maximum bright colors! For a harmonious design, you should consult with the toastmaster if you plan to hire one.

The home decoration for a wedding in the photo below looks cozy.

Before registration, all excess furniture is removed. This is necessary to provide a “dance floor”. At some point, guests will definitely want to dance. You also need to immediately take care of the musical accompaniment. Usually, powerful computer speakers are enough, but if desired, the toastmaster can rent professional equipment and create a playlist.

Photoshoot

Hiring a photographer will cost at least 10,000 rubles. But the money is worth the result. The fact is that the conditions of the restaurant allow you to take high-quality photographs even with amateur photography. The home environment requires the intervention of a specialist with high-quality equipment. This condition will allow you to take studio-quality photographs that will delight you for many years. It is customary to feed and water the photographer during the feast, but do this only towards the end of the event.

The presenter is also the toastmaster

When planning a home wedding, people often neglect the services of a professional host. Sometimes this is justified, for example, if most of the guests are elderly people who do not want active entertainment and will be satisfied with table conversations.

If we are talking about a motley company consisting of several generations, it is impossible to do without a toastmaster. Only he can direct the wedding in the right way and give everyone fun.

For a presenter, working at home is not standard; he rarely has to deal with such orders. You need to discuss all the nuances with him at least a month in advance and together create a scenario for a wedding at home, different from the usual restaurant one:

• room size;
• room lighting;
• organizing a dance floor (is it possible in principle).

This is the minimum list. Don't get complacent when choosing pageants for your wedding at home. The companies will be of different ages and social groups.

Ask the host to provide what kind of competitions he plans to do for a wedding at home in order to assess whether these entertainments are suitable for a small room. If you ignore this aspect, then some entertainment may not go according to plan.

Cool buy-outs for weddings are often practiced; in a private home it is much easier to carry them out. However, remember that the wedding scenario in a narrow circle at home should be different from the standard one in a restaurant or cafe.

What to do with guests

If guests leave the restaurant on their own, then in a home wedding there may be options that are often not the most convenient for the newlyweds. For example, someone will get too much and will need an additional bed. To avoid embarrassment, you need to think through this point in advance and discuss it with the guests. It’s still not possible to accommodate everyone for the night, so immediately announce in the form of a joke the number of sleeping places that may be available to friends and relatives.

So, the preparation is complete, you can safely go to the registry office and sign the most important document in your life.

An interesting article for future newlyweds. Several scenarios for a wedding.

A wedding is one of the most unforgettable events for a couple. Therefore, I want to celebrate in a fun atmosphere with friends and family. Nowadays, European-style weddings are in fashion, which are held without the participation of a toastmaster. But you shouldn’t think that the celebration will consist only of a modest feast. You can take on the role of leader.

Comical original script for a wedding anniversary

Of course, a wedding anniversary, and especially an anniversary, should be spent in the company of those closest to you. To make the holiday fun, you can arrange various competitions and games.

Approximate scenario for a wedding anniversary

It is not necessary to tie the script to a specific date, but you can mention it. It is advisable to choose two presenters for the celebration. It is best if it is a man and a woman.

Leaders' words:

Greetings, dear guests

Throw away all your sorrows

And get ready to have fun

To enjoy your wedding to the fullest.

Don't forget to fill your glasses

And drink together to the newlyweds.

Questions and Answers Competition

Address to the couple (heroes of the occasion):

Now you have a task

A very responsible test

You go out to the center of the hall together

Choose your answers to the questions well.

For this competition, you need to prepare two bags with questions and answers for the groom in advance. Questions could be something like this:

• Honey, do you want a lot of kids?
• Will you call my parents "Mom" and "Dad"?
• Shall we get a dog?
• Will you buy me a fur coat?

The bride takes out pieces of paper from the first bag, and the groom takes out the answers from the second. The answers should be:

• Only after the silver wedding
• Dream on baby
• If salary allows

Thus, the groom chooses the answers to the questions at random. It turns out very original and fun.

Fun lottery

After this competition, the couple sits down and takes a short break to have a snack and drink. Guests are sure to shout “Bitter”! When the invitees and the husband and wife have a little rest at the table, the second presenter asks the guests to purchase a comic lottery. You don’t have to name the price; let each of the invitees give as much money as they see fit.

Leader's words:

“Dear guests rested, drank a little, had a party

Now we ask you to come and purchase the lottery.”

A basket of papers is prepared in advance. Each of the guests must take out the package and read aloud what is written inside. For example:

• Don't be sad, crunch. We give you a cracker (a pack of crackers is handed over)
• This thing may be useful to you. You will have to recover your hangover in the morning (you will be given a bottle of beer or low-alcohol drink)
• Our gift is modest and is called a pencil (I give pencils to the guest)
• You will soon say thank you, and the best gift is a book (the guest is given a magazine with crossword puzzles)
• There is a lot of fun going on right now. And our present will save you from a hangover tomorrow (they hand over Aspirin)

IMPORTANT! It is necessary to give guests a little break from competitions. The invitees and the heroes of the occasion drink and eat.

After a short break, the heroes of the occasion are presented with gifts. This needs to be done as a joke. It is worth making an agreement with one of the guests in advance. The presenters must prepare a large box of broken bottles. The box is beautifully packaged. One of the guests criticizes the gift for the newlyweds and says that this set is incredibly expensive, and it took him a long time to choose it. When presented, the guest drops the box with the “gift” on the floor. Everyone hears the sound of breaking glass. After this, the guest announces that it is a joke and gives the couple his real gift.

Bride kidnapping competition

It is necessary to quietly lead the bride out of the hall during the dance. After this, the presenter says that the bride has disappeared, and in order to ransom her, the groom needs to dance a striptease. After the groom's dance, one of the invited men comes out, dressed in the bride's dress, and sits on the groom's lap. The guest says that he will return the bride if the groom gives him a bottle of Hennessy. However, you don’t necessarily need to buy this elite drink. You can put a hand-drawn Hennessy label on a bottle of cognac. After the ransom, the couple dances one last dance by candlelight. The guests eat the cake and leave.

Scenario for a wedding banquet

Increasingly, newlyweds are trying to save money on their wedding. Most young people prefer to go on holiday abroad rather than spend huge amounts of money on luxurious banquets. But this does not mean that the holiday will be boring. You can prepare interesting competitions and a scenario for the celebration in advance.

During the wedding celebration you must:

• Thank your parents
• Congratulate the newlyweds
• Organize a bride kidnapping
• Thank guests
• Cheer up your guests using contests and lotteries

Fun competitions for weddings

They can be announced by one of the guests. It is best if it is a close friend of the bride or groomsman.

• Competition "Attraction". To conduct the competition, you need to pack items in large boxes in advance. At the same time, there is no need to say that it is packed. It is necessary to describe the subject in a humorous manner. For example: milk storage container (bra), egg tray (family panties), washing machine (grout), sewing machine (needle and thread). Guests must bargain after the auction is announced. The starting price can be 5-10 rubles. The money is put into a bag for the newlyweds. After purchasing items, guests are asked to unbox prizes.
• Competition "Casanova". It is necessary to choose several cheerful men among the guests. The music turns on and the man must collect more kisses within a certain period of time. The count is based on the number of lipstick marks on a man's face. Women should not give up immediately, the participant wins the kiss
• Competition of questions for guests. This is a traditional and fun competition. It is necessary to prepare leaflets with questions and answers in advance. They are put in different boxes. The questions should be like this: do you like alcohol? Have you ever danced a striptease? Are you hiding your extra income from your partner? Do you have connections on the side? The answers may be as follows: knowing me, you don’t have to ask, I get pleasure from it, only at night in bed, it’s a shame to admit it in front of everyone. Usually this competition is accompanied by laughter

Modern wedding scenario for a wedding with unusual and fun competitions

This scenario is ideal for young guests. All competitions are fun and active:

• Portrait. Several participants are selected for this competition. Each competitor is given sheets of paper and pencils. Everyone must draw someone invited. On the back, in small letters, you need to write who is depicted in the portrait. Then these drawings are distributed to the guests and they must guess who is drawn in the portrait. Whose drawing gets the most correct answers is the winner. Portraits are given to the person depicted in them.
• Who was born? Several married couples are selected for this fun competition. Women stand opposite their men. The presenter gives the women information about the newborn baby. On the sheets of paper you can write: a Chinese man with sly eyes was born, a black baby who screams all the time. In this case, the woman must show her partner with gestures what is written on the piece of paper. The man who most correctly solves the encrypted information wins
• Competition "Drunkard". This competition is built on the principle of the children's game “The odd one out.” For this, 5-6 participants are selected. One less glass than the number of competitors is placed on the table. The music turns on and the participants walk around the table. As soon as the presenter claps his hands or the music stops, you need to grab the glass and empty it. Whoever doesn't get a drink is out
• Competition "Baby". To do this, several men who love beer are invited to the stage. Each bottle comes with a nipple. Whichever participant empties the container the fastest wins

Scenario for a small wedding party with friends

It is advisable for matchmakers to take on the role of leading. If they are elderly, then it is possible for the celebration to be carried out by girlfriends and friends of the newlyweds. Before the newlyweds arrive, the hosts offer guests snacks and champagne in the restaurant lobby.

After the couple arrives, romantic music is turned on, and the children sprinkle rose petals on the couple. One of the presenters suggests that the bride say goodbye to her maiden name. To do this, the girl is given an armful of balloons filled with helium and a marker. The bride must write her maiden name on each of the balloons and release them into the sky.

• Competitions for the bride and groom. This is a kind of test for newlyweds. It is necessary to seat several men in the center of the hall. The bride is blindfolded. She must use her hands to feel the ears of each candidate and determine where her husband is. The groom won't be bored either. He is blindfolded. Several girls sit on chairs and bare their legs. The groom must feel his legs to determine where his beloved is
• Competition for guests. It is necessary for the presenter to select several active couples in the hall. The men sit on chairs and a paper napkin is placed on their laps. Women sit on their partners' laps. The music is turned on and the participants must rub the napkins with their buttocks and legs
• Competition for invitees "Clothespins". Traditional and very fun competition. Several pairs are selected. Men are given empty tin cans on ropes and clothespins. Participants are blindfolded. They must pin jewelry on their chosen ones. Then you can ask them to remove the jewelry without using their hands with their eyes open. This competition brings people together if they are not married
• Dance competition. Couples are given balloons and lively music is turned on. Partners must burst the ball while dancing, squeezing it with their buttocks or chest

The wedding ends with the ceremony of removing the veil. To do this, romantic music is turned on, the groom takes off the bride’s veil and dances the first family dance with her. Next, the newlyweds thank the guests for congratulating them. The couple cut the wedding cake and distribute it to the guests. At the end of the evening, everyone enjoys the wedding fireworks.

Scenario for a wedding evening with competitions for the toastmaster. Wedding celebration script for toastmaster

Typically, the scenario for a wedding with a toastmaster is divided into two parts: introductory and table. At the very beginning, after the newlyweds arrive, they are sprinkled with wheat grains and rose petals.

• Affectionate as
• Beautiful as
• Caring as
• Smart as

After each proposal, she pulls out a piece of paper with an animal that the groom wrote. In the same way, a competition is held with the bride’s answers. Laughter echoes throughout the hall.

Voting for the gender of the baby born in a couple is considered traditional. For a fun game, the toastmaster brings out two people to the guests, one blue and the other pink. Each of the guests must put some money into the chosen little man.

Accordingly, if one of the invitees wants to vote for a girl, he must spend money in pink clothes. The gender that collects the most money will win.

The toastmaster can prepare a bottle of champagne with a photo of the bride and groom in advance.

IMPORTANT! The lovers will have to open the bottle in exactly one year.

• Competition "What's in the glass." A fun competition for all guests. To carry it out, 100 g of vodka is poured into a glass. You need to put a straw in each container. The toastmaster announces that there is water in all glasses except one. Guests need to determine which glass contains vodka by the grimaces of the participants. At the end of the competition, the presenter admits that all the glasses contain vodka
• Nodules. A fun competition that will allow you to have fun with the participants. The toastmaster invites several people of different genders and ages to participate. Each person is given a rope 1 m long. Each participant must tie as many knots as possible. After everyone has done it, the toastmaster announces that the winner will be the one who first unties all the knots
• A fun competition for men. The toastmaster invites several men who have served in the army to the stage. They are given neatly folded T-shirts and asked to quickly put them on. After this, participants are blindfolded and given family underpants. Men will try to put on briefs, thinking they are tank tops.

Original wedding scenarios with competitions at home

If the wedding is celebrated at home, then most often the closest people and friends are among the invitees. Everyone has long been tired of the usual noisy feasts. It is worth taking a responsible approach to organizing the celebration and thinking through every little detail.

An essential part of any wedding:

• Newlyweds meeting
• New couple's first dance
• Congratulations and toasts
• Competitions, games and competitions
• Presentation of gifts
• Dancing and disco
• Farewell to girlhood and bachelorhood
• Eating birthday cake

To prevent the wedding from seeming boring, it is necessary to dilute the traditional part with fun games and competitions. At the same time, you need to try so that the guests do not get bored and do not have time to get pretty drunk. To do this, after drinking 1-2 glasses, they organize some kind of competition.

Competitions for weddings at home

• Stuffed cabbage rolls. A comic competition in which a man is invited to participate. They blindfold him and announce that there is a woman lying on the sofa with a sweet candy in her mouth. He must find the candy and eat it without using his hands. But a man lies down on the sofa without candy, while the music “Blue Moon” plays
• Appetite. Couples are invited to the competition, they are blindfolded and swapped. Participants need to eat a banana; a different participant bites from each edge. Thus, the contestants will meet lips. It's fun if the participants are of the same gender
• Pregnant wife. A fun competition for men. It is necessary for the witness and the groom to glue the balloon with tape at the level of the stomach. A box of matches is poured onto the floor, and the participants must collect everything and not burst the ball.

Scenario for a wedding evening in a narrow circle

The scenario depends on where the celebration is held, at home or in a cafe. In a restaurant, you can organize mobile competitions that require a lot of space. At home, people mostly choose games and competitions at or near the table. You can even arrange quizzes at the beginning of the celebration while all the guests are sober.

• Striptease. A circle is made using chairs. 10 participants are selected, the same number of chairs are taken. The music is turned on and after it is turned off, the participants must put any thing on the chair where they stopped. The number of items taken depends on how close the contestants are. Next, the music starts again and the participants are already putting on the item from the chair where they stopped
• Fashion boutique. For the competition you need to take a large bag and put funny clothes in it. This could be size 58 panties or a size 10 bra. Each contestant takes an item from the bag and puts it on. It is necessary not to take off your outfit for 30 minutes
• Kamikaze. A fun competition to improve your mood. A glass is placed on the table, each person sitting must pour a little strong drink into the container and pass it on. Whoever has a full glass must drink it

Scenario for a Russian wedding ceremony. Costumes for Russian weddings

A few centuries ago, our ancestors observed all the subtleties of Russian rituals. Now many people are trying to organize a European, maritime wedding. But still, some newlyweds want to observe traditions.

The main stages of the Russian wedding ceremony:

• Matchmaking
• Collusion
• hen-party
• Wedding
• The wedding night
• wedding feast

It is on the wedding day that the celebration begins with the grooming of the bride. A friend helps her get dressed. In this case, the groom is at home and should not see his beloved. Next, the man comes for his lady. The bride's relatives ask for ransom. After this, the newlyweds go to get married in church (at the registry office).

It was considered traditional in Rus' for newlyweds to meet with wheat sprinkled on them, but now many couples are abandoning this tradition. The newlyweds choose rose petals or soap bubbles. The newlyweds are always greeted with a loaf of bread and salt. There is a belief that whoever bites off the most will be the head of the family.

Previously, after the arrival of the newlyweds, their parents lit a fireplace; this was considered a sign of a family hearth. This tradition has now been replaced by lighting candles at the end of the evening.

Costumes for Russian weddings

The bride's wedding clothes are quite complex and varied. In Rus', a shirt with an embroidered ornament was originally worn. A sundress with wide straps was put on top of it. A similar outfit was decorated with a festive apron and a beautiful belt.

The bride always wore a kokoshnik on her head - a hat with an open back. It was believed that a girl herself should embroider an ornament on a shirt, but now you can buy clothes with machine embroidery.

The groom wore a long sleeve shirt and trousers. Moreover, all ornaments had to be made from the same threads as the bride’s outfit.

A wedding is a day that will be remembered for a lifetime. So that you remember this celebration with warmth and trepidation, make every effort to organize it.

VIDEO: Wedding Script

Wedding at home or in the country.

If for some reason you cannot celebrate your wedding in a restaurant or club, do not despair and be sad, you can have a wedding at home, the main thing is to approach it correctly! Believe me, a home-style wedding scenario will bring a sea of ​​positive emotions, joy, fun and romance to this important day in your life. Dedicated to everyone who decided to have a wedding at home!

So, what do we have, an apartment or a house, a dozen guests and an immense desire to make your wedding day the most memorable in your life together! As popular wisdom says, as you celebrate your wedding, so will you live!

Sample scenario for holding a wedding at home.

1. Bride ransom

Our home scenario begins at the entrance of the house, when a car with newlyweds approaches it. Having passed the official registration of marriage, happy and in love, now husband and wife, go home. As soon as the car stops at the house, all the guests line up in the corridor on both sides of it, no matter in what order. If you like, you can have the men stand on the right and the women on the left, or in a checkerboard pattern, boy-girl.

And then the bride and groom get out of the car, they glow with happiness, to the joyful cries of congratulations, the guests shower them with rice or wheat (so that there is always enough food in the family). If you want the newlyweds to stay out of trouble financially, you can shower them with coins. But only carefully! Having walked along the corridor, the young people find themselves at the entrance to the house, where another surprise awaits them.

The father of the groom and the father of the bride spread a snow-white blanket in front of them, when the newlyweds step on it, the fathers say: “Forget all your quarrels and discords, all your sorrows and misfortunes. Break them into small pieces and start living in happiness!” After these words, the parents present the bride and groom with a large porcelain plate, which they break for good luck by stepping over the white blanket. If the fragments remain too large, everyone can help the bride and groom become even happier by trampling the fragments into tiny pieces.

2. Bread and salt for the wedding is held after the bride's ransom.

After the porcelain plate has turned into a pile of small fragments, the parents roll up the canvas and with the words: “Go away, grief and sadness, let our children be happy!”, the groom takes the bride in his arms and carries her into the house!

If you live in your own house, then the task of the groom is noticeably easier, but if in an apartment building, then so that he does not overwork, the bride can be carried in his arms only on the first and last floor. On the threshold of the apartment, the newlyweds are met by their mothers, who invite the groom to cross the threshold. As soon as the last obstacle is overcome, the groom lowers the bride to her feet.




Now the wedding is moving inside an apartment or house. Here the mother-in-law and mother-in-law pronounce their parting words to the newlyweds. In order to find out the aspirations of the young, their desires and thoughts, several paper paths are laid out on the floor. On one can be written the paths that a young family will take: “Towards children”, “Towards prosperity”, “Towards adventure”, “Towards a quiet life”.

On the second path are the family mottos: “Not a step without each other,” “Together we are strong,” “Two boots are a match.”
Well, on the third path, the bride and groom, if they are lucky, will see their rights and responsibilities: “Wash the dishes”, “Go to the store”, “Make dumplings on Saturdays”, “Walk the dog”, etc.

It must be remembered that the bride and groom should not see what is written on the pieces of paper; only after they have chosen their path and walked along it, the mothers read out the verdict. After the young people have learned about their future, they are served a loaf of bread! By breaking off a piece and dipping it in salt, the young once and for all protect their family life from evil and lies.

3. Wedding banquet.

Now the newlyweds, parents and guests move into a large room. The real wedding banquet will begin here. Having sat down at the table, the newlyweds begin to accept congratulations from guests and witnesses. Every toast to the newlyweds should carry only positive emotions. Wish the bride and groom love, happiness, health, children, prosperity, understanding, etc.

After the toast to the newlyweds, the next toast is to the parents. Here it is necessary that it be spoken by a person who knows well both the parents of the groom and the parents of the bride. If such a speaker was not found among the guests, let the children themselves, the bride and groom, thank their parents for having them.

Having raised their glasses to dads and moms, it was the turn of the guests to listen to words of gratitude addressed to them. And at the end of this toast, everyone shouts in unison: “Bitter!” And the young people kiss.




To prevent a home wedding feast from developing into monotonous gatherings, it is necessary to organize competitions, comic tasks and riddles. In order for all guests to express themselves, a certain pattern must be followed.

For example, first competitions for parents. The bride's mother and mother-in-law must guess their daughter's voice; to do this, the bride herself and her bridesmaids take turns shouting: "Mom!"
Fathers also have a task ahead of them: the groom and his friends take turns bringing them glasses of vodka, the parent needs to guess which glass is from the groom. If all the parents guessed their children correctly, they are given comic souvenirs and certificates for “Best Parents.”

The next competition is held for guests, namely for witnesses. While they are trying to bite the apple without touching it with their hands, the bride is kidnapped. Unlike a wedding in a restaurant or other large venue, the apartment is small in size, so the bride hides in one of the rooms. To rescue her, the witnesses will have to pay a fine to the groom's friends who are guarding the doors. They have no choice but to empty their pockets and pay.


The bride is free, the wedding celebration continues! To please the guests and parents, the bride and groom dance their wedding dance. If there is not enough space in the apartment for this, you can go out onto the site or even onto the street. Passersby passing by the dancing couple will look at them with admiration.

The dance is over, now it's time to bring the wedding cake! The bride and groom take the knife in their hands and cut off the first piece. Traditionally, the bride names the person who will receive the first piece of the wedding cake. It is at this moment, when the bride and groom distribute sweet pieces of pie, that guests who have not yet had time to give them can make up for lost time.

So - time for fireworks or launching paper lanterns with wishes

Wedding at home
There is a lot of controversy and different views around home wedding celebrations. Some people are convinced that there is no need to have a wedding at all; if the budget is limited, it is better to choose the “wedding for two” option. Someone will remember that once upon a time everyone celebrated like this, and there was nothing wrong with that...

Before organizing a wedding at home, we will consider the possible pros and cons of such a holiday. We will try to eliminate the disadvantages and emphasize the advantages.

Minuses:

Most often it’s boring, gray and generally similar to ordinary family gatherings - birthdays, home feasts. There is no feeling of solemnity.
- Balloons on the curtain, a poster “advice and love”, mother’s set, herring under a fur coat, Olivier salad and fried chicken with mashed potatoes, guests falling asleep from boredom, after everything they’ve eaten and drunk.
- Poor mom, who stands behind the stove all night, poor dad, carrying groceries, and poor aunt, who then has to wash all these dishes.

There is little room for dancing (maybe none at all).
- A large amount of dishes and furniture are required.
- In the summer it is very hot in the apartment.
- Availability of space for storing food and groceries.
- Limited number of guests.
- There is a possibility that guests may stay overnight at your home after a stormy celebration.

Pros:

A good option if among the invitees there are elderly relatives who are very dear to you, but who find it difficult to withstand noisy restaurants (for many this is a huge burden).
- You are not tied to the required amount of the order in the restaurant; you do not pay for renting the hall.
- For you, a cozy family evening is preferable to a magnificent celebration.
- You are not limited in time.
- Usually after celebrating at home, you can live for another week with everything ready. The main thing is to have somewhere to store it all.

Organizing a wedding at home.

1. Number of guests.
Before organizing a wedding at home, check whether the number of guests matches the area of ​​the house or apartment.

2. Time of year.
It is better to have a wedding in an apartment in the cold season, since no refrigerator will be enough for all the treats, you will have to use the balcony.

3. Furniture.
Is it possible to get chairs, benches, tables somewhere? To place tables, you need to take out the excess. You can leave unnecessary furniture with neighbors and relatives for a while. There are always not enough chairs and stools. Think in advance about who you will take these necessary things from during the celebration.

4. Dance floor.
If you have a large apartment or house with large rooms, you can hold the celebration in one room. Then you need to place tables along the walls, and in the center of the room there will be a dance floor and a competition area. If the rooms are small, then you can put tables in one room, and make a platform for dancing and competitions in the second room.

5. Table setting.
Depending on the dishes you will have at the family banquet, calculate how many complete sets you need:

Portion plates - for appetizers, main courses, dessert;
- general dishes, salad bowls, bread bins, fruit bowls, dishes for canapés, sandwiches, cold cuts, snacks;
- cutlery (forks, knives, spoons, dessert spoons);
- tea sets;
- cooking utensils (pots, salad bowls, frying pans);
- dishes for storing food.

Serving.
So that your holiday does not look like ordinary home gatherings, decorate the table beautifully. Place candles in luxurious candelabra on the table. This will set you and your guests up for solemnity.

Dishes. It is advisable that the dishes be in the same color and style, or even better - from the same set. The dishes should fit under the tablecloth and fit into the interior. An option for complete eclecticism in serving is possible: feel free to combine dishes from different sets;
. The tablecloth should be in harmony with the room and dishes;
. Napkins are matched to the tablecloth. Each person is given linen napkins. Paper napkins can be laid out separately for each guest, or just placed in napkin holders.


6. Menu.
Think carefully about the menu, calculate the number of servings. You can do something smarter: choose a restaurant or several restaurants that you like. Go visit them, talk to the manager about what the restaurant can offer as a standard menu for your number of guests. Restaurants often have special sample menus that they give you to take with you.

A buffet will help get rid of many problems. As a rule, a buffet is organized when there are few places for guests, but a large number of people need to be fed. This method of serving frees up space for dancing, and no one will trip over the chairs. Slightly late guests will freely find refreshments. Guests themselves will determine where it is more convenient for them to sit down, and will choose the dishes and drinks placed on the table. They eat and drink standing at or near the buffet table.


7. Cooking.
There are several options for organizing food preparation for a wedding at home:

1). Cooking meals yourself (bride, mother of the bride and groom, family, friends). Make a menu in advance, write down in detail what needs to be cooked, when, on what day (some food is prepared the day before, others can be done in two days, there are even certain pies that stand for a month), how long it takes to prepare each dish, calculate how many people needs to be attracted.

2). Invite a cook and waiters (1 per 10-15 people). You can find a chef through friends, advertisements, asking in a cafe, or inviting a neighbor who is a good cook. Waiters can be found using the same method. Or ask someone you know to help you as a waiter. This will significantly free up your time; none of the guests will be interrupted from the holiday.

3). Order catering ("catering" - restaurant service outside fixed premises, arrangement of outdoor catering events). Catering means not only food preparation and delivery, but also service, presentation, decoration and similar services.

Good companies will do everything beautifully and tasty. The service is better than most restaurants. Table setting is possible in colors that suit your interior. Service and plating are sometimes included in the price of the meal. Some dishes are prepared on site (pig, grilled meat/fish, etc.). The amount of food will be calculated for you depending on the number of guests and budget, so you don’t have to worry about how to organize a feast.

A wedding cake.
If you decide to bake your wedding cake yourself, do it in advance (two days before the holiday). Don't make it spoil quickly. Before the wedding itself, you will have a lot of other worries and may not have time to bake.

It's much easier to order a wedding cake. Moreover, now the choice of confectionery products is very rich.

The traditional wedding cake can be replaced with beautiful cakes. It will look very original if they are in harmony with the style of your wedding. To diversify the sweet table, the cakes can be signed with the initials of the people who will be present at the wedding.

8. Purchasing food for the table.
After the menu is compiled, write down a list of necessary products. Write down what you can buy where and on what day. Calculate your budget. Appoint those responsible for purchasing. Think about what you can buy at wholesale stores at a better price.

9. Decorating the apartment.
Don't miss this point. Even just beautifully arranged bouquets in large glass vases on tables and floors will change the look of the apartment. The options for decorating an apartment are the same as decorating a wedding banquet hall: balloons, fabric and floristry.

Do not forget to take into account the fact that the apartment is much smaller than the restaurant premises, the ceilings are lower. Try not to clutter the space too much. It is enough to highlight the place of the newlyweds and make light accents in other places.

In addition, guests will give you flowers; ask one of the invitees after the registry office (during your walk) to take the flowers home and tastefully arrange them in vases. You can place flowers in floor vases in the corners or next to the newlyweds, depending on how your furniture will be placed.

* Stock up on the required number of vases in advance!
* Assign those responsible for decorating the apartment.
* Try to prepare and decorate everything in advance as much as possible.

10. Neighbors.
An important point. You definitely don’t need curses and quarrels on your wedding day. Go around to your neighbors in advance, warn about the upcoming event and possible noise and loud music.

11. Presenter.
To prevent a wedding from turning into an ordinary feast, you need a person who can lead the process.

Don't leave things to chance! And especially don’t take everything upon yourself! Today you are the heroes of the occasion! And everything should be for you! Who can be a wedding toastmaster?

1). Leading professional. The procedure for choosing a wedding toastmaster is standard: a list of presenters, a phone call, a meeting with the one you like, a choice. When choosing an unfamiliar host, keep in mind that a home wedding is too personal and is intended for a narrow circle of people. Will it be comfortable for you and your guests to observe a stranger in such an environment?

2). The leader is a relative. If you have active guests, ask them to host your wedding. Choose one or a couple of friends in charge of the event, close in age to most of the guests. Think over the program together or, if you are confident in your friends or relatives, ask them to prepare an entertainment program with competitions at their discretion. Describe the course of the wedding, what follows what, the order of words and speeches.

3). Without a leader. If you have a friendly company that you don’t need to manage, they are independent, intelligent people who know that when you need to say and do, you can do without a toastmaster. In this case, ask your friends to prepare for congratulations, for example, prepare numbers: someone sings, someone dances, someone prepares a skit, someone shows tricks. Use all the talents of the invitees. You can win prizes for numbers - lots from the newlyweds.

12. Entertainment program, traditions.
After choosing a host, decide what you would like to see at your wedding. Think about what wedding traditions you like and which ones you want to apply to yourself. Think over a competition program - since there is not enough space for outdoor games, hold games and competitions either table games or ones that do not require much space, you can use karaoke.

13. Musicians.
Inviting musicians to your apartment is not always convenient - the dimensions of a standard apartment and the sound may not allow you to do this. Alternatively, you can make a selection of music that you and your guests like, connect good speakers to your computer or music center, assign someone responsible for the music and enjoy a home disco. To create a larger dance floor effect, hang a mirror ball, light music or a soap bubble installation.

14. Pets.
Think about your pets. A wedding at home will be very stressful for them. If possible, take them to another place on your wedding day so that they do not accidentally run out into the street from your apartment when guests take a smoke break or leave the premises.

15. Parents.
These are the people who are dearest to you. Don't turn your wedding into a job for them. Parents must be present at the Registry Office and not stand behind the stove at this time.

16. Wedding night.
It is advisable that there is no one else in the apartment where you will spend the night. If this is not possible due to overnight guests, rent a hotel or at least get yourself a room where it will be just you.
- Decorate the bed and room.
- Create a romantic atmosphere.

Notes

. Don't forget to arrange in advance with several people who can help with cleaning your house or apartment.
. You can have a great celebration at home, but ruin your wedding in an expensive restaurant. It all depends on the organization.
. If you have relatives or friends who selflessly decided to help cook and tidy up your apartment or house - you are happy people! If there are no such people, then it is better to think about whether it is worth celebrating the wedding at home. Or is it better to arrange the option “for two” or “newlyweds, parents and witnesses”, order a cozy cafe and sit in the family circle.
. If you are still in the mood for a celebration at home with friends and family, but there is no one to help you, think about the option of a buffet with games and dancing until you drop instead of a traditional feast.

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Here's a home-style wedding scenario! On the one hand, everything is very simple, but on the other hand, where, if not at home, can you celebrate such a significant event in your life! Therefore, believe me, the main thing is not where, but the main thing is with whom! Among your friends and guests, you will be the happiest newlyweds! Happiness and love to you!

How to have a wedding without spending money? We won’t discuss the reasons (or our view on this ritual), we’ll just tell you that there are no particular difficulties in holding a wedding at home. As they say - if only there was a desire!

How to hold a wedding yourself?

The most important thing is that everything is done carefully plan. Think about what you want to save on and what doesn’t allow any savings. For example, photographs. After all, this is such a celebration, the photographs of which will be viewed not only by your children, but also by your grandchildren. Although you can ask your friends - if you have a good camera, a cheerful mood and a creative approach, you will be guaranteed great photos.

You can easily do without a wedding designer by doing...

Bride dress can be sewn by a seamstress. If this is not a cool studio, then they won’t get much money out of it. Or you can remember the custom of our ancestors, when the bride sewed her wedding dress with her own hands.

If you do have a wedding cortege, you can entrust the decoration of the car to the groom and his friends. You can decorate too using improvised means- use ribbons, paper and fresh flowers, make fabric drapery.

Home wedding: scenario

This means that the restaurant and cafe are cancelled. We will celebrate the wedding like in the old days - at home! If possible, you can go out of town- to the dacha, to nature. But if changeable weather scares you, then we will be in our own walls.

It is better to warn your neighbors in advance. Or better yet, invite them to the celebration. Experience shows that a 3-room apartment can accommodate about 30 or a little more guests. It's cramped, but what fun!

Having a menu thought up in advance and helping mothers and grandmothers of other relatives will greatly facilitate the culinary part of the program. Friends can take care of the fun part by preparing interesting competitions and pranks. Be sure to think through the musical part of your home wedding in advance. The script plays an important role here.

It’s not even necessary to order designer “things”. On the Internet today you can find a lot of master classes on the topic wedding design(for example, do it yourself!).

Pros: holding a wedding at home will cost you SIGNIFICANTLY less than doing the same thing, but in a restaurant, on a yacht, with a professional toastmaster and DJ.

Minuses: It’s cramped, and I still have to wash all the dishes in the evening...

Well, if all this doesn’t scare you - Advice and love!

And now we invite you to watch a video where a girl shares secrets about how she managed to save big on her own wedding: